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#1 Re: Main Forum » Coming soon: get reborn to your descendants after living to old age » Today 02:35:33

Is this going to be a choice to be reborn or is it automatic? Sometimes I just want to move on from a town. I don't want to be forced to play in a single town every life just because I live to 60

#4 Re: Bug Discussion » Families can't survive through the night » 2020-11-26 05:27:18

I have not read a single reply in this thread.

Baby distribution is all fucked up. It sends about half the server population to one family and the other fams will be struggling to get even a single girl.

Seriously I play at night at all the time and there will be 30 people online and 15 people will be in a single family.

Please fix this Jason

Case in point. Yikes took this screenshot 5 seconds ago, 12am est

hdheudjrhd

#5 Re: Main Forum » What happened here? » 2020-11-25 21:17:34

Threads that are obviously made just to bait arguments shouldn't be allowed and the authors should be punished.

#6 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 19:30:42

Spoonwood wrote:
DiscardedSlinky wrote:

Yes that's all the stuff I said out of context. You really got me there.

I checked and all of those comments are in chronological order.  You spoke correctly in that people need to take responsibility for their actions.    Sure, most griefers are children.  But, telling someone to grow up isn't likely to work unless you have their respect.  I might be able to tell Milkman to grow up and take responsibility for his actions, since I'm old enough to be his real life father, and maybe I got some respect from him when he played low pop and wasn't, at least, griefing in his own snow village and invited people to a wine party.  I doubt such would work though.

You also kept on with that message.  In a discussion like this, people are likely to assume that you were responding to the last comment, not writing a moral injunction to the crowd.  So, when Cantface starts talking, I can see how she takes the impression that you were talking to her.  The context here kind of establishes that you end up talking to individuals.  Also, from what I recall of reading what cantface has said before, it seems that she's probably about your age Slinky.  You aren't old enough to be her mom or aunt, and even if you were, you aren't.

Unless I really missed something, she didn't ask for your advice.  I say this as someone who gives advice rather frequently, and think it's often the better way to go on some things.  But, I do realize that unwanted advice correctly gets recognized as patronizing.  That doesn't mean Cantface made a good choice by calling out your behavior there.  Unwanted "help" is just someone putting pressure on someone else, when that someone else doesn't want it.  Maybe that person would be better off by being more open-minded about suggestions or tips from others.  But, in the end, that's their call to make.

Also Slinky, seriously, what's with the clown face here?  I'm not going to say that you were toxic, because that term is vague, but can't you see how the clown face here was unfriendly and unwelcoming after she asked/told you to stop?

I was never talking to cantface. I only addressed her after she replied to me.

Clown face was cause her reply to mine was OUTRAGEOUS. That you can take as me being toxic and that's fine. Seriously though, way too much drama here over dumb misunderstandings. If I was telling cantface to grow up I would've quoted her. I didn't even read the thread before my first addition to it because I was just coming to tell griefers something I believe.

I'm done talking in this thread. Christ.

#7 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 19:24:05

Eve Troll wrote:

Yea i think the one thing we can all agree on is that im the one being toxic in this thread.

I don't know why you feel the need to lash out at people like this, but you might want to look internally for the answer.

We all have different opinions and viewpoints right? Maybe stop assuming I am trying to be toxic and look at this thread from my point of view. I come here and give my thoughts to the griefers and I get called a piece of shit who curses people for nothing and that I'm toxic and patronizing because some random stranger thinks I'm talking to her. Frustrating right?

Then I get some dude who just wants to fight with me at every turn for no reason. I do not care what your opinion is Mr.Toxolotl, Beep, Troll. If you don't like me that's perfectly fine but don't sit there and lie and twist stuff around to make me look bad. Take your own advice and look at things from different angles from people you don't like as you told me before.

#8 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 18:57:45

Eve Troll wrote:

I posted those to give a reference to your rhetoric. If you hadnt noticed, cantface never singled you out, and unlike you was actually talking in hypotheticals. Doesnt really matter if its out of context. Because you were never talking to them, right? Who were you talking to again? Every single one of those posts is an attack, you dont pose reasoning, you dont bring up anything but your anger. I dont know why you feel the need to lash out at people like this, but you might want to look internally for the answer. I dont think anyone in this thread has said anything to justify the things you have said.


Your reading comprehension is very poor I can see.

I think you need to reread the thread because you have no idea what you're talking about.


Cantface wrote:

Maybe instead of saying grow up you could realise that there are people of all different kinds playing this game and many with various issues so being patronising and telling us or ppl like me to grow up is spreading even more toxicity and hardly helps us see your side of things. It's actually a little unsettling and upsetting to me how people have tunnel vision about this issue! Not everyone can handle the BS as well as you do I'm sure.


Like Eve troll says you're running a bit fast and loose with deciding what actions are/are not griefing, but as soon as I mention another perspective you shut it down quickly and disregard other opinions. I wanted to have a healthy discussion not told to fucking grow up after making some actual points here.


This is what she said to me. Rude and assuming I am talking to her. I never talked about what actions I consider griefing, just my thoughts on griefers as a whole but she's painting a picture like I am out here cursing everyone for everything. Assuming who I am when she has no idea.

Cantface wrote:

I wanted to have a healthy discussion not told to fucking grow up after making some actual points here.

Extremely rude to me when I wasn't talking to her. So I was rude back. I didn't insult her, I just told her how she was sounding to me and

DiscardedSlinky wrote:

If you're having a bad day don't come here and put it on random people. If you're out there griefing you can do what you want but you'll have to accept consequences for it as we all do. Either way stop assuming everyone is talking to you. I was addressing griefers in general with most of my messages but you come out hurling insults at people you don't even know.

No insults. I was rude, but that was intentional as I view her messages to me prior very rude as well.

Please read the threads before making up lies tox. You're being very toxic.

#9 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 18:31:45

Yes that's all the stuff I said out of context. You really got me there.

Also it's funny you brought the joke comment clearly aimed at you into it. Biased are we tox?

#10 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 18:15:45

Being called a patroniser, and toxic is pretty rude in my opinion. Also assuming that I curse people for people making small mistakes (Which I don't and I don't even know how that got brought into this??) is pretty rude.

They insulted me first, so I made it crystal clear I wasn't talking to them in a rude way because they were rude to me first. They didn't apologise and instead called me a gaslighter when I said I don't even know them.

I do not care about any of your feelings. If you misunderstood something that is your fault. Do not go and be rude to me about it after I tell make it clear I am not talking to you.

Jesus christ.

me: "We all have problems and issues. If you can't play a video game without making your issues everyone else's you need to grow up."
Everyone else: "WTF WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT ME LIKE THAT? I DON'T NEED TO GROW UP"

You're all crazy.

#11 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 17:53:00

Eve Troll wrote:
Cantface wrote:
DiscardedSlinky wrote:

I don't even know who you are. My only memory of you is you drawing some fanart like a year ago. Who are you? Do you even play? Are you in the discord? You're sounding 1. incredibly paranoid and strange and 2. defensive as hell, which makes you sound guilty of something.

If you're having a bad day don't come here and put it on random people. If you're out there griefing you can do what you want but you'll have to accept consequences for it as we all do. Either way stop assuming everyone is talking to you. I was addressing griefers in general with most of my messages but you come out hurling insults at people you don't even know.

Sure you did nothing at all. How about you leave me alone and stop responding to me? I have told you what I think even offered to agree to disagree but you continue, I haven't insulted anyone on the level that you have, stop gaslighting me and assuming I'm guilty of something you're the one telling people to grow up and making massive assumptions about me. I'm not answering any of your questions this convo is just going south.

This isn't good for me and I need to stop talking to you. You are continuing to push buttons that are setting me off. Sure I have responsibility for how I feel and what I say but so do you and you're actually upsetting me so please for the love of god STOP.

Slinky, can you stop bullying someone who has been bringing up legitimate points in thoughtful ways? Just because you disagree with them doesnt give you a right to treat them this way. This kind of behavior is part of the problem.

I'm not bullying fucking anyone. I'm defending myself and explaining that I'm not TALKING to her. When she says shit like "I shouldn't have let people like YOU and this game effect me so negatively in the first place. I shouldn't allow you to toy with my head 'unintentionally' or not. It's just easier to mess with certain people's emotions and then turn around and act like it's all on them. Sure, that's why a lot of us don't want to interact with people in general."


YOU, YOU, YOU YOU. Like I'm calling her a griefer. I didn't say a fuckin word to her, which was what I was explaining.

#12 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 17:47:01

insane

LMAO okay. Good luck, I think you're going to need it jesus

#13 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 16:40:02

Cantface wrote:

You said it multiple times after my posts, but you know what, you're right. I shouldn't have let people like you and this game effect me so negatively in the first place. I shouldn't allow you to toy with my head 'unintentionally' or not. It's just easier to mess with certain people's emotions and then turn around and act like it's all on them. Sure, that's why a lot of us don't want to interact with people in general.

I don't even know who you are. My only memory of you is you drawing some fanart like a year ago. Who are you? Do you even play? Are you in the discord? You're sounding 1. incredibly paranoid and strange and 2. defensive as hell, which makes you sound guilty of something.

If you're having a bad day don't come here and put it on random people. If you're out there griefing you can do what you want but you'll have to accept consequences for it as we all do. Either way stop assuming everyone is talking to you. I was addressing griefers in general with most of my messages but you come out hurling insults at people you don't even know.

#14 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 15:25:43

If you're assuming I'm talking to you and are getting mad about it maybe you need to check your life choices.

#15 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 07:59:43

Sounds like you're being unfriendly and unwelcoming. Guess I have no choice but to grief you as it's impossible to control my anger you triggered. Maybe you should fix yourself if you don't want to be griefed.

#16 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 06:43:14

We all have problems and issues. If you can't play a video game without making your issues everyone else's you need to grow up.

#18 Re: Main Forum » Your first grief? » 2020-11-25 01:00:23

Everyone is responsible for their own actions. Griefers always be like "Dude they provoked me, they didn't give me their hat!!!!" Or some other stupid bullshit excuse then use that as a reason they grief.

Grow up children. You are responsible for the things you do. Your choices, your actions are YOURS and yours alone.

#20 Re: Main Forum » Griefing series in June 2020, cause and apology » 2020-11-23 05:43:57

I think it is big that you apologized. Good on you Kilian.

#21 Re: Main Forum » Griefing series in June 2020, cause and apology » 2020-11-23 03:42:44

Why do people always blame me for things Yikes does, I shit talked you but I wasn't playing then

#23 Re: Main Forum » No Vision for New Players » 2020-11-19 12:48:24

I think there needs to be a place where we can read everything. Everyone is confused on stuff like curse death timers, different ranges for cursing and killing and forgiving, when new Eve's spawn ect ect. There's no good place for us to find the numbers for these questions. We have to just spend like 20 mins scrolling through the GitHub changes in the discord to find what we're looking for.

Jason needs to make this stuff Crystal clear somehow.

#24 Re: Main Forum » I found something in the woods. » 2020-11-18 08:27:22

i recognize that desolate forest path, see you soon

#25 Re: Main Forum » Spoonwood, why you always type so much? » 2020-11-15 20:59:50

That was such a long time ago. I think my family died out relatively fast and other fams took over it so it was named Slinkey town because we were the original creators.

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