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Yeah, that's why I was thinking of doing more basic stuff, since we can't really control what environment we are born into, and what mothers are willing to keep us. It's great that you got it to work out though! Maybe I'll just join the official discord (I'm assuming that's where you were approached) and work from there.
Do you just both click tutorial after death to get reborn into it or what?
This is why carrots are best kept until you have sheep or steel tools. You need to add soil and till the row every time you want to plant them, and it can be a bit hard on your stone hoes.
There we go. Two mentors so far and zero students!
If people really are interested in this idea though, I'll have a look at setting something up for it on discord.
The name thing happened to me in one life. When I was born in the berry fields of a large town, my mother carried on with her work tending to the berries. I followed and said "f" but she never replied, so a kind man fed me a berry and said whilst holding me "You are Africa"
My mother said "Noooo thats not his name" but it was done I became a Tana and not a Laughter.
That's awesome! Mom has no say in what happens if she don't feed or name you ![]()
No, it's a great idea to pair up with an experienced player as well! I don't plan on teaching players any of those things, no worries. But there's probably stuff for me to learn as well, I'm sure.
I'm thinking stuff like temp running, surviving in the wild, setting up an Eve camp. It'll have to depend on where we spawn of course, so it'll be a little informal. No tried an true lesson plan or anything. Just a bit of in-game fun.
Berry, it's me. Rabbit.
I made a grave pen for the carrots, and buried you, Uncle Lee, and my mom in it. Thanks for saving me. I'm not sure if my mom didn't notice me or what, but she was nowhere to be seen when I first opened my eyes. You are my second mom, and certainly the one who lived the longest.
Thank you for tolerating my pig killing obsession. The pigs killed my mom and they needed to pay. I think they killed Lee too. I killed yet another pig after you died, then passed on the family pack and arrow to my granddaughter, who I tasked with tending the carrots. I died next you and my mother by the grave pen.
We could discord chat or something. Learn tips and tricks and general setting up camp and survival basics. It's sometimes hard to teach my newer babies since they can only communicate one letter at a time ![]()
Wait, how the hell did their last name change to Berry?
I think adopting a baby gives that baby your last name. I haven't been able to see this in action though since I've only ever adopted babies who were already related to me.
My only daughter died yesterday and we had enough food stockpiled to last for a while so I taught my newish son Fredrik to smith, step by step. Hope he remembers. Also a few months ago as the only survivor and a male I had just learnt to smith but already had a love for the forge. Made a shovel, chisel, split rocks. We must have been not more than third gen but by my late forties I had made a bell tower base and all the tools. (I neglected the farm though
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Yes, I've done this too! Had an Eve run a while back where one of my boys was new. I'm always patient with my new children if I can be. When it was clear my only daughter wasn't returning to camp, I gave him the bad news and we decided instead of both suiciding I would teach him what I could. Showed him how to tend the farm and make backpacks!
His last words were something along the lines of memories that he'd never forget, which I thought was sweet. I wasn't sure how helpful I'd been, but it seems to have had a lasting impression.
I was born the son of an Eve. She didn't seem to know what she was doing. Didn't have tools to make a fire, was farming and planting crops before she had the means to water them. She didn't name herself and she didn't name me, but she picked me up enough times as a baby that I never even had to say F. She kept me alive, which I am very grateful for.
I probably should have helped her, explained what to do, guided her to a better starting location. At first I grabbed a basket and brought some supplies back to her. I'm excellent at surviving in the wild, even as a small child with a tiny stomach. I brought her rope, and I brought her food, but she never used it. She just continued to struggle with her farm.
Yes, I should have helped her, but at that point I had my own mission in mind. I wanted to make a knife.
I'd made knives in the past, but usually in a city that had tools and supplies. I was far from an expert though. Knives are often frowned upon in larger societies, even if they are a necessity. I knew more or less how to do it, but the problem was that I'd never made a file before. I figured, as the son of an Eve who probably wasn't going to set up a lasting camp anyway, now was as good a time as any to learn.
I set myself up on the edge of a desert, not too far from my mom. I could run back occasionally to check on her, I figured, and if she or a daughter of hers found my camp, then good for them. At least there was a chance.
But I made my camp without future generations in mind. I made a snare first and focused on rabbits. I set up the kiln and got to work making bowls and plates for smithing. I cooked omelettes and rabbits and ran and searched for milkweed and iron. I never farmed. The first steel tool I made was a file.
Luckily my mom had already made a bow for some reason, so at least I had a leg up. She was dead at that point, so I helped myself to what little belongings she had.
After making the file I went through the process step by step. It was a little slow as I had to keep the fire going and run further and further for kindling. Had to make more charcoal, had to heat more iron, had to run for more kindling. An ax might have made things a little easier, but I wasn't sure of all the steps to get to a knife, and didn't want to waste what little iron I had.
I was old and grey by the time I did it. Six bars left in my hunger meter, and there I stood, knife in hand. I was so proud. So happy. I had learned something knew, even now, as a player who almost always makes it to old age in all of her lives. I spent the last few years of my life running into the desert to find a snake to kill. I found one. I killed it. I died of old age.
In that entire play through I never even spoke a word.
So for any new players out there: don't be discouraged by the deaths of all your female relatives. Being the last male survivor of a small camp is how I learned to smith early on, and it's how I learned to make a knife just now. It's a great opportunity to experiment without hurting the family. Try new things. Live. Learn.
That is all.
PS. Sorry mom, for not being all that helpful.
I think it's hard for some of the newer players to know when is too much and when is too little when it comes to the berries. I was born next to a small corn field, but nobody ever replanted it and very few people actually used the corn. Spotted some popcorn around occasionally, but we didn't make it to stew in my lifetime.
I knew we needed to move on to smithing ASAP, so that's what I worked towards by hunting rabbits and putting together some bellows. Mostly because I usually give birth to kids who never stop expanding the berry farm, so I figured I wouldn't have to do that. They seem to have figured things out though (I hope.)
Good work Carma! Looks like Amanda lived to be pretty old too, though her kids didn't do quite as well.
Yeah, I was hunting rabbits, feeding babies, and farming at the same time. Probably should have let a few of them die, but one of them was you so that might have ended poorly. It looks like they're still going, so that's nice!
Every time I came back to drop off the rabbits, the berries needed soil. There were baskets around for soil. I made sure of that...
Starvation seems to hit big cities a lot, more often when they focus solely on farming their massive berry fields rather than focusing on better food resources.
This town honestly probably had trouble because the berry farm wasn't big enough. I expanded it a bit when I was a child, but it didn't look like anyone else did after I moved on to hunting rabbits. I just wanted to get that forge ready.
Oh hey, I was your mom! I spent my elder years out hunting rabbits. Was wondering where all the kids were when I came back. Guess now I know.
You just want to marry your twin.
This reminds me of my lesbian berry farmer run. I didn't have kids. All of the women around me were having kids, but not me. I adopted nameless babies and showed them to my mom. "Not mine," I would tell her. "So no name. But I love them anyway."
Eventually I explained to my mom that the reason I wasn't having any biological kids was because I was a lesbian. She was understanding and loved me anyway. One day she asked me why I hadn't named my son, and I had to explain to her once again that it wasn't my kid I was feeding. It was my nephew.
I eventually had a son. Literally seconds after my mother died.
Either works for me, just let me know when you have something ready! And if you have anything in mind for how you want it read, include any and all ideas with the lines.
Is there any particular software I should use or get installed on my computer in the meantime?
Oh my god! I'm Eve Darnell! Darnell is always my last name when I'm an Eve. I can't believe you guys did so well! I have no idea how to play this game. I got it three days ago. I tried to name my firstborn Runan and it ended up as Rune. I'm so freaking tickled right now. I was just reading peoples' stories and MY KIDS ARE IN ONE AHHHHHHHH *flaps hands*. I'M SO PROUD AHHHHHH!
It's a good feeling, huh? Not only did you have multiple generations of descendants, they built something that helped an entirely different family thrive later on! My Eve runs rarely ever work out that well.
After I spawned as a Memic my mom grabbed a horse and cart went off to trade with the other town, so it sounds like it! Pretty sure that was were my aunts and uncles set up while my mom was working on her own place.
The more common way people grief with locked doors is to lock everything the town needs in the room and then hide the key. Locking people in rooms is probably only working right now because of the new players who don't know about locks.
It sucks, but it's not as common as you'd think.
Just out of curiosity, how much of the town was built when you found it? When I died we'd just barely got the forge set up and my son was asking how to make a shovel. All we'd planted was berries. I'd like to know what they managed in future generations.
What kind of time commitment would something like this be? It could be fun, but I work a full time job and have never done anything like it before.
Last night I was Jasmine Darnell, born to a second gen mom who was on her own but had found a good spot to start a camp. We built the camp up, though eventually she disappeared, having died somewhere. It was just me and my kids. I planted berries in two by three plots, and one of my kids even made a two by three plot slightly southwest of the rest of them. We had a kiln/forge on the edge of the desert, and while I was out exploring I found the rest of our family, my aunts and uncles and their kids, to the northwest.
I lived a good life, even had a reincarnating daughter who I coincidentally gave the same name as her last life. Mom reflexes had me snatching my son away from the tile he was on seconds before a snake slithered through. Things looked pretty good when I died.
This morning I wasn't surprised to see that the family line had died out. They usually do after a night's sleep.
When I spawned in game this morning, however, I didn't recognize the place at first. The trees had been cut down, and the berry plots had been filled in so that they were one giant field. It wasn't until I'd run around the wilderness for a bit and discovered a farm to the northwest that I realized, I'd been here before. Ran back into town, the kiln/forge was in the same place relative to the berry fields, and there was even a little two by three berry plot to the southwest of the first. The biomes were in the same place... this was my old home, just a new family.
To the Memics: I'm sorry I didn't do much when I spawned into town, I was just too happy to see that it was still being used. I ended up starving because the berries were all empty and I didn't see any food nearby. No loss to you though, I wasn't doing much. I'm glad you found the place and kept things going.
Jasmine Darnell: http://lineage.onehouronelife.com/serve … _id=478913
Africa Memic: http://lineage.onehouronelife.com/serve … _id=484177
Yeah, this can be frustrating. It's not so bad when you're in one of the first gens and you can gently boss people around and tell them what to do next, but later on in civs people just run around and do the only job they know how to do. People in civs just don't communicate as well because they're so focused on their task I guess. The newbies get lost in the cracks and tend/expand the berry farm, because that's what their mom told them to do as a baby.
I've kinda enjoyed my Eve (or child of Eve runs) more lately than living in civs, because it becomes pretty obvious that most of my kids don't know what they really need and I can teach them. In two of my most recent games I had kids coming up to me asking me to make a shovel before we even had a forge. I explained to them what we needed to do to get the shovel and now they know a little more.
I'd like to add that carrots can be a good first crop because they grow fast and you might need some food while you wait for the berries. But realistically you need to make sure you have enough milkweed if you're going to be planting carrots before you start smithing, because that hoe's gonna break. A lot.
I quite liked the idea of a cabbage patch ritual to summon an Eve baby. Maybe plant a nine by nine square of cabbages and water the middle one with rose water or something.
Like, having an Adam with you when you start could be helpful, but keep in mind that my sister and I had the benefit of our Eve mother doing all the leg work to find a suitable location. Trying to travel with other people takes extra time because you have to make sure you don't get lost, so finding a home as an Eve would take longer if you don't want to leave your Adam behind.